Deborah Merrick (Wilson)

Having been raised with the principle that discussions of religion, politics and money were unacceptable in polite society, I too am disappointed at the political turn the posts have taken but thoroughly enjoy hearing news of my fellow classmates' memories of time at CHS and their current lives.

Carol - How moving your story is and a good reminder for all of us that just when we think things are going to be smooth forever, life thows us a curve through which we must persevere inorder to arrive at the next good time of life.  

My very best wishes to you and your husband and I thank you for bringing back memories of times at the shore (where my grandparents had a home) and performances at The Manor.  For me it was meeting and having my picture taken there with Frankie Avalon.  I avoided washing the cheek he kissed for weeks.  Those poor performers-----what they had to endure for their art!

I became a first time grandmother last September 26th and am wondering if that may be a record for our class.  It might prove to be my only one - LOL.

Carol Kutner (Winig)

I have watch our friendly posts go political and I agree that this is not the forum for that kind of discussion.

Lewis update         I havent seen him as we were away and just returned, but I have had my finger on the pulse, excuse the pun. He has been aken off all breathing machines and was just moved out of Intensive care to step down. He is very uncomfortable and depressed. He is on Dyalisis three times a week  and doesn't really know a whote lot more than that.

I will be going to see him on Thursday and will bring each and everyone os your kind words to him. I printed them all out so he knows how many people care.

I will report back as soon as I know more.

Carol Kutner (Winig)

please excuse all of my spelling mistakes on last post as I am very travel weary.

Sunny Ingber (Drohan)

First: Carol Kutner Winig: Please let Lewis know that i am rooting for his recovery. I think about him often. His depression is probably normal for someone going through an illness. it's hard to be hopefull when all else about you seems to be falling apart. Tell him for me that if can just hold on, perhaps just then, things will turn around for the better. He has more to do.

Also, I too would like to say, please no more politics on this forum. I see enough on FB and certainly would not like to see it here. 

Carol Ratcliffe(Gairo): That was such a warm hearted story. I enjoyed reading all of it. Especially since the story turned out so wonderfully. You do have a knack for writing. Who can resist a love story. Not me. 

Sorry your mom had such difficulty and had to go through her turmoil. I know how that can be.

On a brighter note,  we are going to the US Open and staying with our daughter Michele in the city. She too is a tennis fanatic. We brought her up right.

Nancy Shapiro (Kohn) Hi there.  I so remember our days at Myers Elem. Hope all is well with you. Those were "The Days My Friend"

Carol Ratcliffe (Gairo)

I appreciate the kind words about my journals.  I love writing and I thought by posting my Love Story it would gets us back on the memories and good times trend.  My hubby and I spent three years as full-time RVers and he loves photography and I have my journals.  Now we can always look at our hobbies to refresh our memories of how lucky we were to travel this amazing country.

Jim and I were also Blessed with 3 healthy sons and 10 healthy grandchildren. I keep a Gratitude Journal daily too, so I never take for granted how lucky I have been.  I now enjoy living in AZ where I can still do water aerobics 6 days a week year round.  As a Certified Hospice Volunteer, I am reminded how valuable each day is and enjoy sharing every sunset with my best friend and lover, Jim.

Have a Great Day!  Carol

Fred Straus

This is my first post. But I have enjoyed reading all others'. I too just became a first time grand pop, Sept. 9th. So I take the record.

Nancy Eisenberg (Einhorn)

I too enjoy reading all the posts. Especially Carols beautiful love story. I am a first time mom mom as of October 25 th. I take the record!!  Hope everyone is having a good life!!!!  Sorry Fred Straus I beat you, but congratulations to you and your family!!

Deborah Merrick (Wilson)

Looks like it is you Nancy unless someone else chimes in!  Congrats to all the new first timers!

Jerry Chonin

I am happy for those who are so appreciative of the little lives that come along. We always said that if it were the norm to adopt 25 years ago we would have. We are too old for children now. There are those of us who live vicariously as uncles and grandparents through friends 

I also hope everyone is well. Please post illness and loss, since we are at that stage of our lives. It's important for us as a support system to know everything  

I don't remember everyone but I love everyone and I love our history. 

David Fertik

Carol congratulations on your writing.  You have developed a special personal "voice" through years of practice! May I suggest you record your voice reading your stories on an MP3, a fine legacy gift.  Double track it with period music as a background like "Under the Boardwalk" or "Sealed with a Kiss". 

Or perhaps a digital video.  You may have a grandchild who wants to make movies or a friend's grandchild who has already developed skills and even style.  These young people might be thrilled to be payed $10, $15 or more per hour - NYers may charge more - to work and get payed.  With the cameras and editing equipment available today a professional job is quite possible.  Old still pix from your life, super 8mm films and iphone films can be integrated with live recordings, voice overs - narration, music, sound FX just like documentaries.  You can also find young film makers at near-by community colleges and universities.  Ask to see their work before choosing a film maker.  Profs can suggest their best students.  This is the time for you to create your legacies for your families.  This can be a fun and family project(s).  The digital world means these heirlooms can survive for centuries!

Marilyn Ford (Evans)

Jerry                                                                                                                                                                           I enjoyed reading your post. I had not thought of it in the way you did. It is so true that we did not all                    travel in the same circles but we all came out of school at the same time and I have always enjoyed                   reading each and every post. We have all been blessed in some way and to know we can support                  each other in time of need with just an incourging word has special meanimg.. May we continue this                   sight and look forward to the next reunion. By then we will all know more class mates from this day on.             May God continue to Bless All

Carol Ratcliffe (Gairo)

Thanks for your suggestions David.  I have already converted all my Super 8 videos to DVD's for each of my children.  Additionally I have written my autobiography titled Sh-h-h . . . Secrets Can Kill! Again I gave a copy to each of my three sons.  My book contains pictures from the 60's forward. 

I thought about self-publishing and/or marketing, but after ghost writing a book for a minister and attending numerous Writers' Conventions in Philly, I realized I wasn't willing to put in the time and effort it takes to market a book successfully. I am happy that Dr. Wayne Dyer did add one of my stories to his last book. 

I write because I enjoy it, but time is a precious commodity with my hubby right now . . . so I want to enjoy as much time with him as God allows.  Thanks again and Have a Great Day!  Carol

Marsha Dishler

I too like this forum and check it daily. It feels nice to have a connection to that part of my life, Thanks  

I be the last one to have grand. kids   My older son is single and my younger son, is in a 8 year committed relationship and they both want kids, but  have not decided to start yet....He is just under 36 years old . There is still time . So my wife and I content ourselves with my two rescue cats and her four rescue dogs for now.

And I can dream..

Jerry Chonin

Best wishes to all of you who are nurtchering a new generation. Let's not forget our classmates who may not be doing so well. I spoke to Lewis Bolno yesterday and call him every couple of days since I found out he was in poor health. Lewis has been in the hospital since July. I won't get specific, but after cancer surgery, Lewis developed kidney problems. He is scheduled to go into rehab this Friday or Monday.

I did ask his permission to let you all know. He does occasionally read the posts and I am sure he would appreciate your well wishes. We will be in Florida again in February and we plan on seeing Lewis. I would love to know who else will be around so maybe we can meet for lunch or dinner.

Please accept all of my prayers to all of you who are not doing so well or caring for a loved one who is ill.

You can email me directly at jchonin@verizon.net. 

Jay Ginsburg

It really is terrific to see the latest news from our classmates.  So sorry to hear about Lewis.  I sure hope he will be okay.  There is so much of that going around.   I still can't get over Bobby Kogan.  What a guy he was.

As for Marcie's statement about not having grandchildren, I only do about 300 adoptions a year, kiddo.  Just say the word.    I can just see you and your wife chasing a bunch of little kids around the house at our age!

Everyone be well,

Jay

Sunny Ingber (Drohan)

Lewis, just want to let you know that we are thinking of you. 

Sunny

David Fertik

LEWIS, I remember you most clearly from Mr. Ashcom's class.  Your infectious smiles and laughs kept us all entertained.  I don't think Mr. A. knew how to respond to you and your wit, so he would just give you an enigmatic stare or smirk.

Be well dear man.  We are all with you and many are sending out our prayers.  I am picturing you and putting white light around you.  Heal.

David

Nancy Eisenberg (Einhorn)

Lewis, Praying for a speedy recovery!! Going to have some good times together when I arrive in Florida in January!!!!!

Carol Kutner (Winig)

Dear Classmates

Gives me real happiness to report that our fellow classmate Lewis Bolno has been making a comeback.  He finally after 2 months in the hospital has been moved to rehab.
I visited with him yesterday and he is still very fragile and weak.  This has been a really difficult road for him.
I took him a printout of all of your caring comments and it really made him smile.
As soon as I have his address I will post so,you can all let him know he is not alone.
He is an only child, no parents, no children, only all of us.

Jerry Chonin

Thank you carol. 

Sunny Ingber (Drohan)

Thank you so much Carol for letting us know. There just has been not a lot of good news lately and I was elated to read your post. Please give him a hug for me.

Jessica Lobel (Kahn)

Thank you so much for letting us know. Give Lewis my love

Deborah Merrick (Wilson)

Kudos to you Lewis from one only child to another!  I am thrilled to hear your health is improcing and hope you know you are an inspiratiuon.

Deborah Merrick (Wilson)

Sorry all - I hit send before checking for typos.  Mrs. Jones would have a fit!!!

Mark Glickman

 Lewis, my thoughts are with you and a speedy recovery-Mark